posted ago by Mast3rBlast3r ago by Mast3rBlast3r +244 / -3

Does this sound abusive to you?? 🤔

My friend's husband won’t let her visit any friends or family. He has made her stop all contact with them unless it’s on the phone or computer. He reads and censors her comments on social media. He makes her feel like she's going crazy for thinking he’s controlling, and that she is being ungrateful. (After all, he’s only doing this because of how much he cares about her.)

He doesn’t want her going to the gym anymore, so she doesn’t go. He also doesn’t let her go to work anymore (he told her to only rely on him for income and that he will take care of her).

She's not really allowed to go out anymore, unless it’s for necessities, and when she does, he makes sure to have people guilt trip her about it and shame her for it.

He wants her to have this medical procedure done and tells her that if she does it, he will allow her more freedoms. He constantly says he's only doing all of this because he cares... he is just doing it for her own good.

Oh wait....did I say husband? I meant the government.

My bad.

Y'all are outraged if a person does this to their spouse, but are passive and compliant when it comes to our government.

Listen and start asking questions.

Turn off your TV and use your brain‼️ 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 Copied

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Mast3rBlast3r [S] 9 points ago +9 / -0

Not my original thoughts - forwarded along, good perspective.

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Tooshort 7 points ago +7 / -0

Lol at first I was like “what does this have to do wi….ohhh”.

SurelyShirley 7 points ago +7 / -0

Absolutely abusive. Classic narcissist behavior. Which pretty much describes the government, too.

NanaQ45 6 points ago +6 / -0

Narcissistic Abuse 101. My mom and ex were narcissists. It was all I knew for a long time. Sick sick fucks! Abusive sick fucks.

Miztivin 5 points ago +5 / -0

Good eye opener.

kish-kumen 5 points ago +5 / -0

Here i was thinking "damn, he really cares about his wife!"

Then you pulled out the rug and shattered the dream😩


Taffy333 4 points ago +4 / -0

I now realize I've seen this before, and still you had me until the very end! It's certainly a good way to explain the situation, though some normies are so into cognitive dissonance that I'm not sure they'd get the connection.

Striker1 4 points ago +4 / -0

I knew where you were going but you know what—that’s an excellent way to show people how bad things are!

Trumpette2020 4 points ago +4 / -0

Psychological warfare! It hasnt worked on us pedes, we are stronger than their abuse! That is awesome!

Anon_69E0A63BD 4 points ago +4 / -0

In a way, it is sad that this story keeps getting recycled with only minor modifications and it is always prescient to the immediate events in our country. It's as if the government never gets tired of abusing the people. And of course business (especially corporations) are encouraged by our government to join in and abuse their employees in the government approved ways that are allowed.

ArmyLady 3 points ago +3 / -0


Deplorable5 3 points ago +3 / -0

You had me there! I was going to ask if you were really asking this and then I was fuming thinking you meant breast implants or a tubal ligation. Then I started laughing with the next paragraph! Good one!

RussianBotButNot 3 points ago +3 / -0

Thank you! I've been saying this for years now; you've gone and explained it even better than I could.

We must all keep it in this perspective for those who do not understand.

patriotfortrump 3 points ago +3 / -0

"Ya'll"? I am neither passive or compliant. Fuck them.

numina18 2 points ago +2 / -0

I guess you didn't read to the end. You should.

numina18 2 points ago +2 / -0

Good one!! And yes, it is abuse!!

CQVFEFE 2 points ago +2 / -0

Y'all are outraged if a person does this to their spouse, but are passive and compliant when it comes to our government.

Nicely done analogy overall, patriot

I might merely offer that on this and other Q-positive forums, if they exist, a better opening would be "People are outraged" instead of "Y'all are outraged", only because all of US are NOT outraged at the abusive spouse only. In fact MOST of us are equally if not MORE outraged at the govt. than at the individual scumbag.

This is totally not to nitpick a carefully crafted tool that is super impactful. As written, this post would be absolutely perfect for 99.9999% of other message forums that aren't full of awakened students of Q :) I hope it goes even more viral than the unwarranted fear of COVID!

ThePowerOfPrayer 1 point ago +1 / -0

Seen this on Facebook a couple months ago.

AzTrumplican 2 points ago +2 / -0

Emotionally abusive and manipulative. Worse then physical abuse. She needs to do couples counseling ASAP with him so the independent counselor can tell her husband the truth to his face.

MuckeyDuck 2 points ago +2 / -0

What's a TV?