This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
I also had a fiancé that did things like this without telling me. I also ignored all the red flags until I had about 5+ on my mind. I began to question what I should do and then presented this stuff to someone I knew that would tell me like it is. They said what I thought they would but they had a good perspective and enough info to give good advice. Internet buddies don’t always know enough about the situation but it can still help. I would just add that OP should ask a friend that will be blunt and has years on you.