Never mind that I'm an antitheist but with a particular demographic any mention of 'Gods will' or any such will instantly loose you any argument.......
May not be too popular a thing to say with many here but it is very much true so it bears mentioning as it is sorta in the same vein as Trump never using 'politician speak' or big words, the whole point of communicating is to get the point across and anything that gets in the way of that just means that you have failed at communicating that point.....
Inter conversation between Jesus and Nicodemas for starters, then try saying what you just said. Atleast 4 examples come to mind that seem to blatantly disagree with Jesus not arguing/debating with religious leaders John 3, 6, 8.
Why did you feel the need to add /debating to your statement?