Being 73 years old and crusty, please allow me to give you my opinion. Or not, I don't care. Men have been emasculated by women. Women's lib projected in schools, by mothers to their sons, on television, movies and social media. Men always seek to please their women. Once women turned on men and started using that as a cudgel and once men started believing it things turned to shit fast. Men quit being men long ago. Women are now trying to becoming men. It won't work. All the operations in the world or the new pronouns will not change things for the better. Mothers, If you love your sons, let your husbands and grandfathers show them how to be men. There is no other way. Boys are trying to be boys.... Mothers, schools and society are beating and coercing that out of them. Just stop.