My husband loves his ex girlfriend more than me… I am close to eating a bullet.
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My husband loves his ex girlfriend more than me… I am close to eating a bullet.
Darlin,' no man is worth killing yourself over. It might seem like it in the heat of the moment, but he's not. Do you have children? If so, don't even think about it again. Don't ever do that to them - leave them with a lifetime of memories and wondering why you didn't love THEM more than you were hurt by HIM.
Bottom line, you are a unique individual. You have your own, unique set of characteristics. Everything from the way you look to the way you walk, talk, your interests, your intellect, your hobbies, strengths and weaknesses. There is no other you. The world needs YOU. There are people who love you and need you and want to keep you around. Don't let him deprive you of that.
I know it hurts. A lot. So much so that it's a physical pain. But you know what, lots of people (probably everybody) has loved and lost at least once. We all know how much it hurts. But you DO get over it. And eventually, like most people, you will probably find someone who suits you much better, treats you much better, and whom you love much better. Don't deny yourself that! Life really is short. Even if you got 100 years (unlikely) it would still be a drop in the bucket of time. Please don't miss out on any of your life time by shortening it yourself.
You WILL survive this. And you will eventually THRIVE. It does happen. You are made of stronger stuff. We are here for you. You know this community. Reach out to people on the board or through DM. We are HERE for you. Remember, where we go one, we go all. Hang around and see how this Q stuff ends. And don't even forget, God loves you far more than you think you love your husband. FAR more. He willingly died to save your soul. Please don't throw that gift away.
God bless and take care. PLEASE, stay with us and keep us posted. Amen.