I've known three gay people in my entire life, and I live a REALLY rural area. The thing about it was, all three were freaking weirdos. One was an actual racist incel who had an "online boyfriend" in high school, another was an introverted porn addict what was emotionally abused by his sister and mother, and the last one was a wealthy lesbian whose uncle just so happened to be a gay retired "stage actor" from Broadway in NYC.

So totally no connection between background/circumstances and their being gay. Nope, no mental disorders or broken psyches there at all.