I have never done that with my husband. Sex is never used as a weapon or form of control in our home. Married 32 years and still going despite the odds.
This is correct. Sex is one of the main tenets of marriage and should never be withheld or given conditionally. No headaches either. Take an Advil. Besides, you probably get more with puppy dog eyes or some version of that anyways.
Yes, but it cuts both ways- Men don't get to withhold affection, thoughtfulness and consideration and then expect great sex, either. There are female fools (like those who think abortion should be a right,)and there are male fools in this group as well. (and yes, I know women can be overly sensitive, talkative and sometimes unreasonable- after all I am one!)
1Co 7:3
The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
7:4
The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
1Co 7:5
Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Ephesians 5:23
Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she (honors) respects her husband.
You are correct. Note that I did not actually specify a gender. Although I have never heard of a man suddenly coming down with a headache if his wife comes out in the sexy clothes wanting some, and puppy dog eyes probably don't work for most men, but I can't say these are impossible either.
My husband always used to say "your money is our money, and my money is my money. He paid for nothing out of his money. He did buy me a big mac one time.
Consider this as feedback that can be used for self improvement; results from an informal Rohrshach Diagnostic test.
Pool players call this developing their eye. They learn how far "off" their eye is then teach themselves to compensate so they are able to shoot straight. Pool players realize that very few people are born with an eye that sees straight.
As Christ pointed out and countless scientific studies have affirmed, the current state of your heart affects your hearing, sight and ability to think.
Fortunately, words chosen reveal the hearts condition as do actions taken.
I have never done that with my husband. Sex is never used as a weapon or form of control in our home. Married 32 years and still going despite the odds.
This is correct. Sex is one of the main tenets of marriage and should never be withheld or given conditionally. No headaches either. Take an Advil. Besides, you probably get more with puppy dog eyes or some version of that anyways.
Yes, but it cuts both ways- Men don't get to withhold affection, thoughtfulness and consideration and then expect great sex, either. There are female fools (like those who think abortion should be a right,)and there are male fools in this group as well. (and yes, I know women can be overly sensitive, talkative and sometimes unreasonable- after all I am one!)
1Co 7:3
The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 7:4
The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 1Co 7:5
Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Ephesians 5:23 Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she (honors) respects her husband.
You are correct. Note that I did not actually specify a gender. Although I have never heard of a man suddenly coming down with a headache if his wife comes out in the sexy clothes wanting some, and puppy dog eyes probably don't work for most men, but I can't say these are impossible either.
Sounds like prostitution to me.
No. Wives are way more expensive than prostitutes.
My husband always used to say "your money is our money, and my money is my money. He paid for nothing out of his money. He did buy me a big mac one time.
Paying for sex is prostitution. A wife is just a long-term one.
You're infected by feminist thought.
No, I see things for what they are. Why waste time and money when you can keep your friends and hobbies?
"Sounds like...to me"
Consider this as feedback that can be used for self improvement; results from an informal Rohrshach Diagnostic test.
Pool players call this developing their eye. They learn how far "off" their eye is then teach themselves to compensate so they are able to shoot straight. Pool players realize that very few people are born with an eye that sees straight.
As Christ pointed out and countless scientific studies have affirmed, the current state of your heart affects your hearing, sight and ability to think.
Fortunately, words chosen reveal the hearts condition as do actions taken.
This is the stupidest comment I have ever heard on this forum, and you should be ashamed of yourself.
I'm not ashamed of myself. There are no positives for men when it comes to marriage.
I know, when I was married sex was a fun thing, not a weapon. If I withhold sex, I withhold from myself having fun.
Exactly!