You're both correct. There is a well established and a well acknowledged height advantage, but that could also be making him bitter.
Now that said, if you're into that sort of thing, there are a good few women out there who are specifically interested in having shorter men. They're just fewer.
Best advice tends to be just to get out, interact with people (as hilariously poorly timed as this is for 99% of the population) and live your life.
Looking too hard will just make you feel bitter. Showing off your money will just make you seem shallow or attract the wrong kind of woman anyway.
When you have a height disadvantage, the best thing to do is to focus on being social and being yourself.
Perhaps a new 3 piece suit would shift focus from your height and present a more traditionally masculine air.
Perhaps building your chest and arms up (don't forget your legs) will change your image. Maybe change the length of the beard, or shave it entirely. A good beard of various lengths can attract many different women, or put them off.
If you've got a beard, maybe get into the beardsman life. Experiment with different oils and fragrances. Scent is a powerful thing.
Presentation is important. There are many ways we can modify our presentation if we are trying to attract people. Key is to not become something you aren't though.
Looking too hard will just make you feel bitter. Showing off your money will just make you seem shallow or attract the wrong kind of woman anyway.
I think that’s where they get the term Napoleon complex. Most (not all) of the short men I’ve worked with always came off as insecure and had to flex to show what they have or who they banged or whatever thing they think tall men talk about. Just came off as off putting. The ones that loved themselves and their short stature always were easy going and good humored. And in turn had no issues with finding a mate bc they weren’t trying too hard.
You're both correct. There is a well established and a well acknowledged height advantage, but that could also be making him bitter.
Now that said, if you're into that sort of thing, there are a good few women out there who are specifically interested in having shorter men. They're just fewer.
Best advice tends to be just to get out, interact with people (as hilariously poorly timed as this is for 99% of the population) and live your life.
Looking too hard will just make you feel bitter. Showing off your money will just make you seem shallow or attract the wrong kind of woman anyway.
When you have a height disadvantage, the best thing to do is to focus on being social and being yourself.
Perhaps a new 3 piece suit would shift focus from your height and present a more traditionally masculine air.
Perhaps building your chest and arms up (don't forget your legs) will change your image. Maybe change the length of the beard, or shave it entirely. A good beard of various lengths can attract many different women, or put them off.
If you've got a beard, maybe get into the beardsman life. Experiment with different oils and fragrances. Scent is a powerful thing.
Presentation is important. There are many ways we can modify our presentation if we are trying to attract people. Key is to not become something you aren't though.
I think that’s where they get the term Napoleon complex. Most (not all) of the short men I’ve worked with always came off as insecure and had to flex to show what they have or who they banged or whatever thing they think tall men talk about. Just came off as off putting. The ones that loved themselves and their short stature always were easy going and good humored. And in turn had no issues with finding a mate bc they weren’t trying too hard.