I wonder why people so consistently reject you out of hand. Is there something in your general bearing that makes people feel like you expect to be held in authority and will be resentful if disappointed in them? I only ask because I've seen this happen to a guy before. People want to be appreciated. It's natural. And we are social animals. We want to feel like we matter and make a difference to our peers.But this guy creeped people out, especially the ladies because he was always doing something on their behalf, and then feeling entitled to some reaction. People could see right through it the older he got. Anyway, long story longer he finally managed to wrangle enough self esteem out of real relationships that he just kinda relaxed eventually and became less toxic to be around and what do you know, but now he's got a beautiful family and real respect. It can happen for you if you just keep up the love for your fellow man. NCSWIC anon. So relax. This is an incredible life!
I wonder why people so consistently reject you out of hand. Is there something in your general bearing that makes people feel like you expect to be held in authority and will be resentful if disappointed in them? I only ask because I've seen this happen to a guy before. People want to be appreciated. It's natural. And we are social animals. We want to feel like we matter and make a difference to our peers.But this guy creeped people out, especially the ladies because he was always doing something on their behalf, and then feeling entitled to some reaction. People could see right through it the older he got. Anyway, long story longer he finally managed to wrangle enough self esteem out of real relationships that he just kinda relaxed eventually and became less toxic to be around and what do you know, but now he's got a beautiful family and real respect. It can happen for you if you just keep up the love for your fellow man. NCSWIC anon. So relax. This is an incredible life!