You are talking about the sexually charged industries that have an always party mentality. As I said, there are whores out there, but the vast majority of gay people aren’t in that group. There are most that just go to their jobs at the cable company or investment firm, go home to his husband and watch TV and go to bed. That is the majority of gay men, not the wild sex whores that you know or hear about in passing. Source: as noted, am gay and know tons of real life gay people, not just the ones in fashion and entertainment.