So I took a break from the dating world. Just took a peak at online dating.
It's super slim pickings out there.
You can tell how far our culture has declined.
If I try to date a good white girl. She might not be comfortable because it could appear "Woke" LOL :)
Most black girls are already gone into the whole woke stuff.
I guess I am screwed lol :)
Join a church… what can you lose?
I am in the UK and cannot find a church that isn't woke, the diabolical church of England holds sway over all of them. The C of E is part of government here, and has been for centuries.
That's what is making me nervous about Churches. The Cabal has control over both sides of the political spectrum. They also have control over most organizations.
I understand! Most US churches are woke as well-but don’t give up hope! Good luck fren!
Form a new church in UK for the White Christian Patriarchy.
Alternately, find a local meeting hall for the Lord's Recovery.
I am not white lol. So this wouldn't apply to me.
Sorry I can't help you there.
I agree with you.
Yes if I were single this is where I would start.
There are some good people out there, but few and far between. Don’t lower your standards. Wasting money on a date or winding up in a shit marriage isn’t worth it.
Those dating apps are filled with women trying to find a rich guy, six feet tall and more and more they are selecting the ones that 'look' attractive. In the past, women would select men that had a sense of humor and were attentive, looks were a bi-product. The apps are an artificial construct, and my guess is that they are destroying the traditional ways.
We're about to celebrate 21 years of marriage and met on a dating app.
This is the most important thing.
My brother just went through a divorce. His wife gave him hell for 12 years.
He is happy to be free now.
I met my husband at church, I’ve been married twenty years now but my niece married last year met her husband at church/college (same religion). My kids hopefully will someday meet their future spouse at church. It helps to have stronger relationship if both have the same values and belief system. Go to places where you will meet people of your same belief system, online it’s easier to lie about who you are. With church it at least takes some commitment but it’s never a guarantee. My sisters first husband she met at church and he would up being terrible.
Good advice.
Thanks!
Sometimes it's easier to find something when you're not looking for it.
Agreed... I tend to take breaks and focus on my side business. It helps for sure.
Don't envy you.
I will say, from my own experience in the past, that dating a long stream of crazy women looking for a good one, can have the side effect of making you fail to realize when the right one comes along. Just something to be aware of.
This is VERY true!
Well said!
Who drove who mad? Lol
It was very different for me. The right one ISN'T crazy. After a long run of crazies I found one who isn't. The contrast couldn't have been more obvious. The difference was beyond night and day.
I suggested to my son that he take up dancing lessons. Lots of women want to learn, and there are never enough men. So, there is a clear advantage. His reaction was like 'yuck' no thanks. But really, it is a well known fact. It can be any kind of dancing too, not just ball-room. But nothing wrong with even knowing how to waltz. The ability to spin a girl around a dance-floor, and bend her back is actually very sexy, and guess what, the man is in control.
Same counts for amateur dramatics. Never enough men on the stage. Such clubs are NOT the same as movies or Hollywood. They are a dedicated group of people interested in performing plays for limited audiences, and it has a long tradition.
Thanks for the suggestion.
I feel sorry for single guys. Unfortunately now you still have to deal with figuring out if your date is even female…
Yeah, it's something you have to pay attention to closely now. Never thought I would live through something like this.
She could tell people that she's dating you because she likes you.
This is true. This was my attempt at humor. I wouldn't be angry at her if she thought that.
The Cabal has done a great job of affecting our state of mind.
This is why I need you guys. This place has become like a family to me.
Yeah, that's true, but I think it's good not to carry that around with us. We have to learn to see what people are really like even if they fall into categories which are not our own.
FWIW I reckon you'll meet nice women if you attend local classes, music lessons, language classes, volunteering etc.
You could run your own local web skills or a computer literacy class and you would meet clever women.
Very good ideas!
If you look kind and suitable then even if the women you meet are taken, they may set you up with their single friends.
That's an option I am looking more into. I know a few married women that have single friends.
What?!?! Dating bc you actually like someone is still a thing?
You gotta do what I did.. find the most reasonable one you can and red pill the shit out of her. Most people (and unfortunately women especially) don't like to pay attention to this stuff. A lot of them know right from wrong though and just need to be shown the light
lol! This is a good way to go about it for sure.
Church is good. Community college is good too. I met my wife at community college. We were both taking night classes. When you meet someone at community college, you can be fairly certain they are not stupid, and they are trying to better themselves. My wife wasn't even looking for anyone, but I talked her into a date the first time I met her.
There should be some churches where you are that are like missionary churches not affiliated with the big guys.
The last place you want to go to meet girls is clubs or bars. They are looking for something you probably aren't.
Yeah it's gotta be tough out there for single people nowadays. I don't envy you.
The left has gone all in on crazy, so right off the bat, 50% (or more) of the women are incompatible nut jobs.
Add in the following and it's gotta be a tight market:
-The vax
-The social media zombies who take selfies 247
-Normies
-High percentage of overweight people
-The "princesses" that think they deserve a billionaire
That last one is so common!
All I see is tons of makeup and fake-looking people.
I'm right there with you. I'm struggling to meet someone, online dating is a joke. Most of these girls are 4 vaccines deep in my area. Only find one here and there that isn't. The rest are obese, unattractive, and wide eyed liberals.
I feel your pain brother.
I really do!
The biggest lie the world has told about relationships is that a man should look for a woman. This is false. A man does what a man does, and when he succeeds, women find him and he can pick from the bunch.
How is the market for Russian brides these days?
If we're to judge our culture by its social activity, we are pretty low frequency primal animals at the moment.
I couldn't agree more. I spent a lot of my time working on my side business.
It's been a long time coming. We want to help with the low-frequency type of thinking.
I've found when you dive into yourself ,the type of mate you are looking for shows up in the things you enjoy doing.
Not sure what your hobbies are, and I don't want to know, but if you have a productive one- like something requiring real work- or volunteering to something worthy like caring for vets, you have a better chance of finding like-minded people. Even if you find a regular friend (based), friends have friends and siblings and...
I was in a hobby group that's dedicated to preserving the folklore of my parents' homeland... and met my spouse there, through a friend. Habitat for humanity here in the states builds houses for people who work alongside the builders. I find that based people tend to Do rather than Post, so their online presence is minimal. Good luck, pede, we're praying for you
From our interactions here you seem like a good guy. Keep your head up brother.
It’s all good. We will see what happens friend.
Thanks for your encouragement!