I'm a married man and father. I've been on here for a year now (half lurking, half member). GAW has become my primary news source thanks to all the researchers and experts in so many areas, in addition to the family-like community.
My wife is a conservative and 45-supporter 100%, but also what I'd consider not fully awake.
I don't think I'm a "conspiracy theorist." I do believe recent events are orchestrated. 9/11 has question marks. Fires intentionally set. Voter fraud is rampant worldwide. Vaccines causing more harm than good. The "pandemic." Public schools serving as indoctrination camps. Etc. Stuff everyone here would likely agree with.
So, despite my wife being uber conservative, when I share a lot of these perspectives with her, I get the "OK, ________" response in a sarcastic tone, like I'm taking it over the top, making a wild and ludicrous claim.
So, I'm curious to hear from other anons willing to share if they have similar experience in this regard with a spouse or fiance or girlfriend, and if so, how to help guide them to their own awakening not influenced by "hubby told me so".
I would like to hear from any married women too, especially if your husband was able to influence your awakening in any way.
I have been coaching people on this for years.
Rule #1: not everything you discover or understand needs to be shared with your wife.
Your job is to bank information, and as she awakens, support her in that process.
Trust me when I tell you this. Many marriages/relationships have gone South bc of oversharing.
Yea, kinda I guess. My #1 job is actually to provide for my family. Having a like-minded spouse (conservative/45 supporter) is essential to the success of any marriage (mine 22 years) and instilling those values in family/kids. But yes, definitely, she definitely needs to awaken at her own time and choosing. I guess that's kinda the intent of my post, to help her get there. She sees the finish line, just doesn't want to run to it, maybe out of fear or other influences
RULE 1!!! I found some shit that I know mine won't handle ....fuck, even threw me into a downer.
Yea, the pedo red shoe club and ppl who visited Epstein isle was something I tried to "soft toss" to her and I knew it was too much. That's a prime example of something in retrospect I shouldn't have shared, but just felt compelled bc of its importance
This. Especially in this stage where things are actually habbening and fast. One of the best tactics currently is to talk about the news. Maui? Dont mention DEW, but let her know you saw an article on possible land grabbing after the fire, Or mention the total of train derailments in the last year when the next one happens to put it in perspective that it is well above normal. Things like this work best because in this stage they are seeing much of it themselves and this way you dont have to try to convince them how Q drops work......
This is really critical if your SO considers themslves progressive. Sigh.
Absolutely. She read MSM this week about the new covid variant and immediately said "Oh watch them try to lock us down again". It's fun to see others, esp loved ones, awakening around you, even if its only small doses.
Yes, I warned her they would ramp covid back up about a month ago and she was already aware and said "I know, I know". She has been watching this stuff unfold on her own so I stay hands off while we both work on our communications skills. We both acknowledge that we need to evenentually come to a place where we can talk about this 'uncomfortable' stuff.
It is a long process, but she is worth it and willing to grow past these differences.