Hmm seems like an unfair characterization if both are loving parents.

Edit: Look, downvote me all you want, I was raised in the church so I understand the concern, but I think it's silly to think modern heterosexual marriages are any more stable than modern gay relationships. We live in an imperfect world, if two men or two women think they can give an orphan a loving home and they can be properly vetted, who am I to stop them?