Myriam was pregnant with Sylvain's 3rd kid when they finally married. Since then it has been a slippery slope: he was professionally invited alone to some dinners where strippers and alcohol were provided. She also met some of his female colleagues who were quite vocal regarding their abilities to "get a guy for the night" whilst winking at him.
Then she got cancer which took time to heal, then she got myocarditis, because yes, she's vaxxed. During this time, Sylvain was communicating with a mysterious she who he swears was just a "platonic non-affair".
He reproached Myriam to become disgusting because of what chimio did to her body and skin. Sometimes he goes to the fitness club... outside the opening hours.
Whilst checking Sylvain's company account, she found out he subscribed to some kind of Meetic site... Just to talk with other people, he says.
Tomorrow, they're making a fiesta as he turns 50. I don't go as I broke all contact with them in 2009. My nephew and nieces only know what my wife tell them about me.
I told my wife she could not decently attend the fiesta tomorrow: this man is destroying her sister and she should not caution this dumpster fire in the making. Now, she's free to go and be with Myriam, but it would be hypocrite and counter-productive to even be polite with him: his parents should be there, they may be interested to hear some real facts about their boy...
That's quite a rant. Sorry, I had to evacuate.... Then, I hear God telling me: "She needs all the force possible to get through this situation. It shall take justice and forgiveness."
Please have a prayer for Myriam.🙏🏻
Birthdays are so weird. Especially big birthdays where everyone is invited, even though things might not be that great. So, I totally understand. I go to events because it's the right thing to do, I don't go to events because it's the right thing to do. I usually go with my gut feelings, which is my spiritual heart guiding me. Remember, an occasion will arrive, and the day will end. It is history. Done. Everyone will forget about it and move on, but you will feel much better that you did not go when you know how bad it would make you feel. That is honoring your boundaries. Love to you and your family.