Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evolving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
How to get confidence like President Trump:
It's worth noting that confidence is often earned. You build confidence by winning and keeping the promises you make to yourself over and over again. It's a tough life that not many people really want, hence why so few people are actually that successful.
I'd recommend the following adjustments:
1.. Always pick the option you're most proud of, even when an alternative seems easier. Who are you at your best? Be that person when no one's looking.
2.. Doing the right thing should never be an exception. Change your identity to accommodate the practical changes you want to make in your life. If you want confidence, put yourself in stressful situations and come out on top. Do it because you're the kind of person who succeeds in those situations.
3.. Correct your self-talk. Never think anything bad about yourself. If you observe things you aren't proud of, quietly change them and let that be that. Self criticism should be constructive, not destructive.
4.. Change your body language. Put your chest out and smile. Be open, warm and present in the moment and truly feel like you belong wherever you are. People will subconsciously notice and accept you if you accept yourself.
5.. Change your own narrative. You can take the same exact life and tell the story of a winner or a loser by emphasizing different parts of the same exact chain of events. Why let yourself be a loser? You can just as easily interpret your life in a way that gives you power.
Hope you don't mind another one that I have found worthy:
You are your own harshest critic/judge. But use this to work on improving what you will do the next time.