I tried for 21 years with my own eggs with my husband and all i had were losses with ivf and no pregnancies without it. My eggs were bad due to thyroid and pcos. I bought eggs. I am raising the best thing to ever happen to me at 42 in a committed loving maga god fearing house. I give thanks to that girl and God everyday.

Most lefties arent looking to make families these days and the process and purchase are mucho expensive. Just my 2 cents. I wanted to die amd was so depressed that i couldnt have a family when my only goal in life was to be a mom to have children from my husband. Those eggs truly saved me. [$50,000] well spent.

As for sperm well thats an easier process for 2 lesbians i guess.

I got to feel my baby and bond with her inside me. I gave birth. We know how influential mRNA is now....well the one growing the baby is influencing the genes through epigenetics so that dna isnt wholly just from the original eggs source anymore.

And that rna comes through the breastfeeding milk. It is especially influential on bone growth, coloring of eyes and hair, immune systems, etc.

It is weird because while she doesnt have my facial features we have the same strange color hazel eye and hair coloring. She copies everything i do and i see my facial expressions and mannerisms reflected back. My point is that that is no longer the donors kid running around. Nor would the donor have been able to make this child with my husband. She looks like my husband. I cant see the donor features at all. Anyway, if i did see the donors features I wouldnt care

Love. Pure love for each other. I couldnt imagine my life without her in it now.