This. A few months ago, a Catholic told me I am surely going to hell because I was too "cheap" to not pay several thousand dollars 50 years ago to become a Catholic (most of a year's salary for me and my husband to get annulment from our 1st marriages. I have since found that I could have passed the not baptized test because I was mormon and Catholics don't recognize mormon baptism)

I miss the literagy. A lot. But I know if I continued attendance, I would be having endless encounters over church policy and no one would put up with my contraryness. I have considered attending Catholic services and sitting in the back and leaving a few minutes early. I can't take the Eucharist, so there's that also.