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Let me just say this to OP.

Show me a woman who issues the divorce ultimatum, and I will show you a woman who has already been thinking about this for some time, and has an exit plan ready to go (whether formalized in some way or just in her head).

She has already discussed this with her family. She has already discussed this with her friends. She may already have an attorney ready to go or at least has an idea of who she will call.

Women often plan this well in advance. Years, in many cases. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women, whether the man is the "Petitioner" or the "Respondent."

The question OP needs to ask is a simple one, yet also very difficult: "Do I want to be married to this woman anymore? Even if it is possible to reconcile, is it worth it to have this woman dictate terms to me that affects my own health and well-being?"

If the answer is no, then ...

Before anything, understand that some judge somewhere, who doesn't know you and most likely doesn't care, and might even be hostile towards you, will be thinking this: If you moved out of the house because your wife was afraid that you might have a communicable disease, then your action of moving out could be construed as an acknowledgement that she was right. Remember, there is no jury in divorce court. As a man, your rights will be abused in some way. Not 50% of the time, or 90% of the time, but 100% of the time. REALITY CHECK. This is 2021, not 1821.

Step 1) Do not move out of the house. Instead, move down the hall to one of the extra bedrooms and sleep there.

Step 2) Talk to 3 or more divorce attorneys, including at least 1 that specializes in helping men, and 1 that does not. If this is a relatively small town, I would talk to ALL the divorce attorneys, because guess what? They MUST ask you the name of your wife, and if they are already working with her, they would have a conflict of interest in working with you. So, they will turn you away due that conflict. This would be an important bit of information for you to know.

Step 3) If you decide that a legal split is the way to go, make sure you or an attorney checks to see if there is already a divorce proceding filed by your wife, but you haven't been told, yet. If not, file your own.

Step 4) Talk to your kids AFTER. Don't let their emotions get in the way. Also, give them literature on why you are deciding what you are about your health and the vaxx. No matter what "side" they are on or their views of the Covid Plandemic, they should at least have the info available as to WHY you are taking the actions you are. If they are adults, the chips will then fall where they fall.

Step 5) Be careful you did not choose a vindictive woman. Be aware that some women will lie through their teeth about abuse or other imaginary harms, just to get you out of the house or in legal trouble. Do NOT underestimate this possibility, no matter what you think of your wife. She obviously behaves in irrational ways, since she is unwilling to discuss this in a rational way.

Good luck. I don't envy your situation, but there is no doubt that millions of marriages are going through something similar due to the actions of the conspirators in the Covid Plandemic. They need to be on trial ASAP for all the harm they have caused. Doctors need to be sued for medical malpractice. Government employees need to be prosecuted.

"May you live in interesting times" is actually a Chinese curse. Hmm.

3 years ago
20 score
Reason: None provided.

Let me just say this to OP.

Show me a woman who issues the divorce ultimatum, and I will show you a woman who has already been thinking about this for some time, and has an exit plan ready to go (whether formalized in some way or just in her head).

She has already discussed this with her family. She has already discussed this with her friends. She may already have an attorney ready to go or at least has an idea of who she will call.

Women often plan this well in advance. Years, in many cases. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women, whether the man is the "Petitioner" or the "Respondent."

The question OP needs to ask is a simple one, yet also very difficult: "Do I want to be married to this woman anymore? Even if it is possible to reconcile, is it worth it to have this woman dictate terms to me that affects my own health and well-being?"

If the answer is no, then ...

Before anything, understand that some judge somewhere, who doesn't know you and most likely doesn't care, and might even be hostile towards you, will be thinking this: If you moved out of the house because your wife was afraid that you might have a communicable disease, then your action of moving out could be construed as an acknowledgement that she was right. Remember, there is no jury in divorce court. As a man, your rights will be abuse in some way. Not 50% of the time, or 90% of the time, but 100% of the time. REALITY CHECK. This is 2021, not 1821.

Step 1) Do not move out of the house. Instead, move down the hall to one of the extra bedrooms and sleep there.

Step 2) Talk to 3 or more divorce attorneys, including at least 1 that specializes in helping men, and 1 that does not. If this is a relatively small town, I would talk to ALL the divorce attorneys, because guess what? They MUST ask you the name of your wife, and if they are already working with her, they would have a conflict of interest in working with you. So, they will turn you away due that conflict. This would be an important bit of information for you to know.

Step 3) If you decide that a legal split is the way to go, make sure you or an attorney checks to see if there is already a divorce proceding filed by your wife, but you haven't been told, yet. If not, file your own.

Step 4) Talk to your kids AFTER. Don't let their emotions get in the way. Also, give them literature on why you are deciding what you are about your health and the vaxx. No matter what "side" they are on or their views of the Covid Plandemic, they should at least have the info available as to WHY you are taking the actions you are. If they are adults, the chips will then fall where they fall.

Step 5) Be careful you did not choose a vindictive woman. Be aware that some women will lie through their teeth about abuse or other imaginary harms, just to get you out of the house or in legal trouble. Do NOT underestimate this possibility, no matter what you think of your wife. She obviously behaves in irrational ways, since she is unwilling to discuss this in a rational way.

Good luck. I don't envy your situation, but there is no doubt that millions of marriages are going through something similar due to the actions of the conspirators in the Covid Plandemic. They need to be on trial ASAP for all the harm they have caused. Doctors need to be sued for medical malpractice. Government employees need to be prosecuted.

"May you live in interesting times" is actually a Chinese curse. Hmm.

3 years ago
20 score
Reason: None provided.

Let me just say this to OP.

Show me a woman who issues the divorce ultimatum, and I will show you a woman who has already been thinking about this for some time, and has an exit plan ready to go (whether formalized in some way or just in her head).

She has already discussed this with her family. She has already discussed this with her friends. She may already have an attorney ready to go or at least has an idea of who she will call.

Women often plan this well in advance. Years, in many cases. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women, whether the man is the "Petitioner" or the "Respondent."

The question OP needs to ask is a simple one, yet also very difficult: "Do I want to be married to this woman anymore? Even if it is possible to reconcile, is it worth it to have this woman dictate terms to me that affects my own health and well-being?"

If the answer is no, then ...

Before anything, understand that some judge somewhere, who doesn't know you and most likely doesn't care, and might even be hostile towards you, will be thinking this: If you moved out of the house because your wife was afraid that you might have a communicable disease, then your action of moving out could be construed as an acknowledgement that she was right. Remember, there is no jury in divorce court. As a man, your rights will be abuse in some way. Not 50% of the time, or 90% of the time, but 100% of the time. REALITY CHECK. This is 2021, not 1821.

Step 1) Do not move out of the house. Instead, move down the hall to one of the extra bedrooms and sleep there.

Step 2) Talk to 3 or more divorce attorneys, including at least 1 that specializes in helping men, and 1 that does not. If this is a relatively small town, I would talk to ALL the divorce attorneys, because guess what? They MUST ask you the name of your wife, and if they are already working with her, they would have a conflict of interest in working with you. So, they will turn you away due that conflict. This would be an important bit of information for you to know.

Step 3) If you decide that a legal split is the way to go, make sure you or an attorney checks to see if there is already a divorce proceding filed by your wife, but you haven't been told, yet. If not, file your own.

Step 4) Talk to your kids AFTER. Don't let their emotions get in the way. Also, give them literature on why you are deciding what you are about your health and the vaxx. No matter what "side" they are on or their views of the Covid Plandemic, they should at least have the info available as to WHY you are taking the actions you are. If they are adults, the chips will then fall where they fall.

Step 5) Be careful you did not choose a vindictive woman. Be aware that some women will lie through their teeth about abuse or other imaginary harms, just to get you out of the house or in legal trouble. Do NOT underestimate this possibility, no matter what you think of your wife. She obviously behaves in irrational ways, since she is unwilling to discuss this in a rational way.

Good luck. I don't evey your situation, but there is no doubt that millions of marriages are going through something similar due to the actions of the conspirators in the Covid Plandemic. They need to be on trial ASAP for all the harm they have caused. Doctors need to be sued for medical malpractice. Government employees need to be prosecuted.

"May you live in interesting times" is actually a Chinese curse. Hmm.

3 years ago
1 score
Reason: Original

Let me just say this to OP.

Show me a woman who issues the divorce ultimatum, and I will show you a woman who has already been thinking about this for some time, and has an exit plan ready to go (whether formalized in some way or just in her head).

She has already discussed this with her family. She has already discussed this with her friends. She may already have an attorney ready to go or at least has an idea of who she will call.

Women often plan this well in advance. Years, in many cases. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women, whether the man is the "Petitioner" or the "Respondent."

The question OP needs to ask is a simple one, yet also very difficult: "Do I want to be married to this woman anymore? Even if it is possible to reconcile, is it worth it to have this woman dictate terms to me that affects my own health and well-being?"

If the answer is no, then ...

Before anything, understand that some judge somewhere, who doesn't know you and most likely doesn't care, and might even be hostile towards you, will be thinking this: If you moved out of the house because your wife was afraid that you might have a communicable disease, then your action of moving out could be construed as an acknowledgement that she was right. Remember, there is no jury in divorce court. As a man, your rights will be abuse in some way. Not 50% of the time, or 90% of the time, but 100% of the time. REALITY CHECK. This is 2021, not 1821.

Step 1) Do not move out of the house. Instead, move down the hall to one of the extra bedrooms and sleep there.

Step 2) Talk to 3 or more divorce attorneys, including at least 1 that specializes in helping men, and 1 that does not. If this is a relatively small town, I would talk to ALL the divorce attorneys, because guess what? They MUST ask you the name of your wife, and if they are already working with her, they would have a conflict of interest in working with you. So, they will turn you away due that conflict. This would be an important bit of information for you tp know.

Step 3) If you decide that a legal split is the way to go, make sure you or an attorney checks to see if there is already a divorce proceding filed by your wife, but you haven't been told, yet. If not, file your own.

Step 4) Talk to your kids AFTER. Don't let their emotions get in the way. Also, give them literature on why you are deciding what you are about your health and the vaxx. No matter what "side" they are on or their views of the Covid Plandemic, they should at least have the info available as to WHY you are taking the actions you are. If they are adults, the chips will then fall where they fall.

Step 5) Be careful you did not choose a vindictive woman. Be aware that some women will lie through their teeth about abuse or other imaginary harms, just to get you out of the house or in legal trouble. Do NOT underestimate this possibility, no matter what you think of your wife. She obviously behaves in irrational ways, since she is unwilling to discuss this in a rational way.

Good luck. I don't evey your situation, but there is no doubt that millions of marriages are going through something similar due to the actions of the conspirators in the Covid Plandemic. They need to be on trial ASAP for all the harm they have caused. Doctors need to be sued for medical malpractice. Government employees need to be prosecuted.

"May you live in interesting times" is actually a Chinese curse. Hmm.

3 years ago
1 score