Just one question is 'bless your heart" always meant in a derogatorily? I've had someone say that to me when I've been very courteous, and friendly at my work.

I work in a C store and I genuinely love dealing with the public, and I love my job, the smiles just overflow. Yes I get some crabby people but 99percent of them are alright. I am in small town ND so I'm sure it would be different in another state. I do get customers from around the country.

Never mind I googled yeah they were being insulting. Well it's ok I'm not going to let them steal my joy.

Just one question is 'bless your heart" always meant in a derogatorily? I've had someone say that to me when I've been very courteous, and friendly at my work.

I work in a C store and I genuinely love dealing with the public, and I love my job, the smiles just overflow. Yes I get some crabby people but 99percent of them are alright. I am in small town ND so I'm sure it would be different in another state. I do get customers from around the country.