Agree, fren. You can be angry at a situation and firm, that does not mean you are full of hate. Like when you scold a child harshly in words for doing something that was dangerous to that young child. You do not hate the child, you just need to be sure the child "does not stick finger into light sockets" heh heh. Allowing yourself to feel actual HATE will drain your energy and bring you to a bad spot in life. That in no way means you let other do as the please if it is hurting you or your loved ones.
Agree, fren. You can be angry at a situation and firm, that does not mean you are full of hate. Like when you scold a child harshly in words for doing something that was dangerous to that young child. You do not hate the child, you just need to be sure the child "does not stick finger into light sockets" heh heh. Allowing yourself to feel actual HATE will drain your energy and bring you to a bad spot in life. That in no way means you let other do as the please if it is hurting you or your loved ones.