I always say that you have to see the chuck hole in front of you and know its diameter and depth so you can safely move around it. We have to notice the threats before we can take action to avoid them....or better, yet...fix them. But, we have to notice how vast the problem before we go obtain the dirt to fill the hole.
But first... Be honest with yourself. If you wanna be afraid it's okay to be such to understand your situation and THEN choose to rise above it.
I always say that you have to see the chuck hole in front of you and know its diameter and depth so you can safely move around it. We have to notice the threats before we can take action to avoid them....or better, yet...fix them. But, we have to notice how vast the problem before we go obtain the dirt to fill the hole.
I can stay positive during that whole process.