We just have to say no.
Ive been scared this whole time because i dont want to have services denied to me or have people yell at me. But im over this.
Ive decided that if im confronted, im just gonna say no. If they persist, ill say i feel suffocated and they make me cry. If they continue....im gonna cry....while looking them dead in the eye. I have this ability...it is genuine.
Then, the fantasy is everyone takes them off and we all clap.
the best way is "I have a medical condition"
you do not have to say what it is - that will take a court order :-)
Crying ???