Good morning Peres!
I haven’t been on here in awhile but I’m personally in a desperate situation and I know there are a number of believers here so.
I’ve asked a few other places online as well as everyone I know that is a believer in person and I want to ask here as well.
Straight up my finacé is addicted to meth. I’ve known for a while now but she just admitted it to me a few weeks back. I’ve been angry and bitter and sad and every other emotion imaginable. She is a believer and I have seen her weep and pray and beg God to help her.
I was thinking of cutting her out of my life completely but after serious prayer time I do not think the Lord wants me to do that.
This addiction is destroying her life, causing immeasurable pain for her daughter and selfishly crushing my heart as well.
I’d ask for prayer for her, prayer for the people she gets her drugs from, prayer for her daughter who she hasn’t seen in weeks on end now and prayer for myself that my anger doesn’t overtake me and I remain faithful to trust God in this very difficult time instead of taking matters into my own hands.
Thank you for reading. Believer or not. Thank you.
Stay strong Pede’s! May the Lord guide and keep each of us.
The Lord has blessed you with compassion as well as a brain. I’d recommend to use both.
Much of life is identifying red flags and acting upon them. A drug addiction plus a child from another man are two red flags you can’t afford to ignore.
I’ve had too many conversations with men after the fact who ignored red flags, tried to play captain save-a-h** and wound up with half their assets, their home, and their dignity gone.
As a fellow pede, I want to warn you of before the train wreck instead of try to comfort you after it. Marriage is a business contract in many ways, and you’re considering taking on a woman who doesn’t have baggage, she has cargo.
Praying for wisdom. Blessings