Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
women are mostly the same. You still have to make them feel protected and wanted. With all the Hollywood bullshit yes the women feel entitled to all kinds of endless bs but if you love your girl then you will do it to make her happy. She will then want to make you happy. Think of things that your spouse loves. (ie mine love random flowers, making sure I say she looks pretty all the time and meaning it, and also making sure she has queso pretty frequently) But that's ok bc I love queso too
Right! Thanks for the tip. I forgot about that woman wants LOVE and man wants RESPECT cycle. Gotta work on it...
This is true. Women lack the perspective to see through Hollywood "romance" stereotypes but there's nothing wrong with giving her some of the romantic things as a LARP. Basically, women are not as complicated or complex as men. There is no reason that a man should be a beta in his own home when a few flowers and the proper guidance and protection can ensure that she feels the fuzzy, cozy love she thinks she needs.