Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
Unfortunately, if a man is in a marriage where his wife is not awake, the problem began before the husband was red-pilled. She ALREADY has seen him as a beta and does not place herself under his spiritual authority and protection. That is a dangerous place for a woman. But if a man is willing to be a man, he will restore that part of the marriage first. Then, when she is in proper alignment, she will SEEK his wisdom and it will no longer be necessary to try to awaken her. If this cannot be done, the man will be a beta in his own home forever.
And he must then leave.
Truly. But God can make a way where there seems to be no way. Best to try that first.