Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
Same here. 2x Vxd husband, very vocal about 'conspiracy theories', does not believe that the gvmt would harm us. We do not talk much at the moment and I have to self edit everything before I say a word. Why am I still with him? At heart he is a good man and has lived his life in service of others. He can not comprehend that there are evil people out there. I think it comes down to fear. He is afraid, of dying, I have no fear as I trust in God's plan for me. I have had to think long and hard about what to do at this point. I am not living my authentic self BUT i am holding on to the thought that one day, he will need me to help him navigate through, when The Truth unfolds. Currently, we exist together, like two radio sets but tuned in to different frequencies (quite literally). You must decide if you can live without your partner in your life or if it is just about tolerable, holding the hope that soon things will change for the better? I guess it comes down to LOVE, how much and how strong?
Okay sorry I'm just too curious, where does the name Goth_Mom come from? Do you dress like a goth?
It's my VERY OLD Twatter name. Was a Goth, still a Mom and now a Granny! Mainly dress in black (it worked for Jonny Cash!) but the make up has long gone. I now love God and wish that I was not quite as tattoo'd as I am, but I try to live the best life I can. It's just a username that's stuck with me really! Sorry! TMI!!!!!
Hey don't apologise, I did ask and I appreciate the honest answer! That makes sense.