Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
Pray
Understand her love language https://www.5lovelanguages.com/
Understand her personality type and how it impacts her communication, stress, and conflict. Search MBTI or similar tests.
Since 911 I’ve been a researcher which has caused challenges in my family. There was denial in the beginning due to cognitive dissonance so I would back off.
Enjoy life! Go enjoy nature. Take a walk in God’s creation together. Find a walking trail nearby… go to a state or national park and unplug.
Find a good church that speaks truth.