We bought concert tickets to several heavy metal shows once everything opened up again. We were so excited to get back into the pit. Metal shows are one place where we can go and not be pummeled with politics. Many freedom-loving, like-minded people are metal fans.

Just like all those who got the jab thinking they would be safe, I foolishly thought I would be allowed to enjoy life without playing the game. Problem is, I'm not vaxxed, not going to be vaxxed, and I struggle with getting tested and playing the game. I don't want to participate in the farce. My husband got the J&J. So there's pressure (self-induced) to get tested so my husband doesn't have to suffer for my decision.

This may seem like a small issue, but this affects personal relationships. Creates tension where there used to be joy. I'm really pissed off that I have to make this decision. And I know it's only going to get worse. I know it IS worse for many others.

Seriously, any thoughtful advice would help me figure this out. Please, no flippant "screw him" suggestions. And no lecturing. Do I take the test?