Drug abusers dont make good parental candidates - defective reasoning and risk-awareness, and biologically a toxic landmine waiting to collapse. People are after partners, not a free junkie/rehab clientele.
Its the easiest choice ever to say no to people like this. And thats even before the suspicion that they all have or will soon have HIV.
I started dating someone last year who was vaxxed. I figured as long as he was open to me not being vaxxed, I would give it a try. The longer I dated him, the less I was attracted to him. I couldn't ever get physically close to him for fear I'd catch something. Plus, I realized how important it is to be aligned on this topic with a partner -- it's more than just 'getting vaxxed' -- it's like you said, critical thinking and the unknown risk of them transmitting something.
Sometimes the oldest ways work best. Head to church, to the gym, or just go for a run in the park maybe and ditch or at least have some alternates to the apps. These places and activities tick a lot of boxes already on the sort of desirable attributes you are probably looking for.. and that guys are looking for also.
YES the churches shut down so fast when it all started for safety reasons but had no problems gathering taking pictures at the George Floyd riot nonsense. I told a few if you can gather outside for that why not an outside service fellowship for God. The answer safety and optics there wasnt a service until the govt said so. Showing the face of the god they abide by.
Drug abusers dont make good parental candidates - defective reasoning and risk-awareness, and biologically a toxic landmine waiting to collapse. People are after partners, not a free junkie/rehab clientele.
Its the easiest choice ever to say no to people like this. And thats even before the suspicion that they all have or will soon have HIV.
I started dating someone last year who was vaxxed. I figured as long as he was open to me not being vaxxed, I would give it a try. The longer I dated him, the less I was attracted to him. I couldn't ever get physically close to him for fear I'd catch something. Plus, I realized how important it is to be aligned on this topic with a partner -- it's more than just 'getting vaxxed' -- it's like you said, critical thinking and the unknown risk of them transmitting something.
Sometimes the oldest ways work best. Head to church, to the gym, or just go for a run in the park maybe and ditch or at least have some alternates to the apps. These places and activities tick a lot of boxes already on the sort of desirable attributes you are probably looking for.. and that guys are looking for also.
YES the churches shut down so fast when it all started for safety reasons but had no problems gathering taking pictures at the George Floyd riot nonsense. I told a few if you can gather outside for that why not an outside service fellowship for God. The answer safety and optics there wasnt a service until the govt said so. Showing the face of the god they abide by.