Drug abusers dont make good parental candidates - defective reasoning and risk-awareness, and biologically a toxic landmine waiting to collapse. People are after partners, not a free junkie/rehab clientele.
Its the easiest choice ever to say no to people like this. And thats even before the suspicion that they all have or will soon have HIV.
I started dating someone last year who was vaxxed. I figured as long as he was open to me not being vaxxed, I would give it a try. The longer I dated him, the less I was attracted to him. I couldn't ever get physically close to him for fear I'd catch something. Plus, I realized how important it is to be aligned on this topic with a partner -- it's more than just 'getting vaxxed' -- it's like you said, critical thinking and the unknown risk of them transmitting something.
Sometimes the oldest ways work best. Head to church, to the gym, or just go for a run in the park maybe and ditch or at least have some alternates to the apps. These places and activities tick a lot of boxes already on the sort of desirable attributes you are probably looking for.. and that guys are looking for also.
Truth , I'm in San Diego my pastor stayed open during the lockdown , we were harassed by other christian churches as much as we were by the law ,, we were in court , on the news , called murderers , it was unbelievable, we have the best of the best coming to our church and publicly declare the jab is death , but you're correct , 99 percent of the Christian churches caved including the ROCK miles McPherson , so sad he had an opportunity to be a huge mouthpiece what a disgrace !
Drug abusers dont make good parental candidates - defective reasoning and risk-awareness, and biologically a toxic landmine waiting to collapse. People are after partners, not a free junkie/rehab clientele.
Its the easiest choice ever to say no to people like this. And thats even before the suspicion that they all have or will soon have HIV.
I started dating someone last year who was vaxxed. I figured as long as he was open to me not being vaxxed, I would give it a try. The longer I dated him, the less I was attracted to him. I couldn't ever get physically close to him for fear I'd catch something. Plus, I realized how important it is to be aligned on this topic with a partner -- it's more than just 'getting vaxxed' -- it's like you said, critical thinking and the unknown risk of them transmitting something.
Sometimes the oldest ways work best. Head to church, to the gym, or just go for a run in the park maybe and ditch or at least have some alternates to the apps. These places and activities tick a lot of boxes already on the sort of desirable attributes you are probably looking for.. and that guys are looking for also.
Truth , I'm in San Diego my pastor stayed open during the lockdown , we were harassed by other christian churches as much as we were by the law ,, we were in court , on the news , called murderers , it was unbelievable, we have the best of the best coming to our church and publicly declare the jab is death , but you're correct , 99 percent of the Christian churches caved including the ROCK miles McPherson , so sad he had an opportunity to be a huge mouthpiece what a disgrace !