Religion is something that you need to discover by yourself, you can't just force somebody to become religious, and in fact trying to do is one of the biggest reasons why people have become so turned off from religion. Likewise people are far too focused on words, which are a symbol that we use to represent reality, actual reality is not words, it is of utmost importance to remember this when discussing religious matters. The goal should be an experience of Unity with God, not the ability to speak certain words in a certain way.