My wife and I found out that her pregnancy isnāt viable and she has miscarried. Weāve wanted another child for so long and finally thought we caught a breakā¦weāre both devastated. Honestly trying (not very successfully) to not be bitter and angry as hell right now- canāt understand how two people tryig their damnedest to raise a family the right way keep getting screwed while plenty of others who donāt even want children seem to be popping them out. Iām sorry, I know thatās inappropriate, mean, petty and not productive etc but I canāt help but feel that way today. Just needed to vent. Thank you to all those who have wished us well, unfortunately, just wasnāt in the cards for us this time. Weāll just pick up the pieces and try again I guessā¦
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Iām sooo sorry, fren! I feel your pain. My husband and I havenāt been able to successfully conceive after our daughter was born in 2016 and we are apparently suffering from whatās called secondary infertility. I had a gynecological operation back in the fall of 2020 and was able to get pregnant in February 2021, but I miscarried and have been able to get pregnant since then. Iām very thankful that God at least blessed us with our miracle daughter but as you said, itās so hard to not become bitter when it seems like so many people are just popping kids out right and left that donāt really care or even worse are terminating their pregnancies when there are plenty of us who would do anything to have a baby. My heart hurts for you and your wife and I will keep yāall in my prayers! šš
Thank you fren, I ache for your pain and losses too. Itās happened a couple of times now and I know thatās where our brains are drifting but weāre trying to stay positive and saying we will try again. It is just so incredibly difficult not to be bitter, I know I need to be better but damn it stings. Thank you for sharing and for your thoughts and prayers. Our little family appreciates it and will be sending prayers and good vibes your way as well. Love.