You’re young enough to be my younger brother, so I’m going to talk to you like one.
First, go rewatch the first 15 minutes of movie you got your name from. Be pvt joker, or snowball, just not pvt Pyle.
Go to church private. What? You already do? Find another church. One that, every time you go, you want to walk up to that preacher and say “How did you I needed to hear that today.” Join a men’s Bible study while you’re at it. What? Wife won’t go to church? Go anyway. Bring the church home to her. Be a brighter light for her.
Especially study parts of the New Testament that tell you not to worry.
Go for a short walk with your wife. Just the two of you. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, just “Hey let’s get out for a bit and stretch our legs.”
If at all possible try and back off the pills. I know it’s more complicated than that, depending on what you’re on. See if your doc can reduce them to a baby dose. Eventually you might even be able to ween yourself off. (Ignore this if you’re bipolar though - advice for fixing that is way beyond my pay grade, but it is possible).
Take a good look at the responses to this post. Care for yourself at least as much as a bunch of strangers do.
Get some rest. And if you truly need an older brother to talk to, pm me.
You’re young enough to be my younger brother, so I’m going to talk to you like one.
First, go rewatch the first 15 minutes of movie you got your name from. Be pvt joker, or snowball, just not pvt Pyle.
Go to church private. What? You already do? Find another church. One that, every time you go, you want to walk up to that preacher and say “How did you I needed to hear that today.” Join a men’s Bible study while you’re at it. What? Wife won’t go to church? Go anyway. Bring the church home to her. Be a brighter light for her.
Especially study parts of the New Testament that tell you not to worry.
Go for a short walk with your wife. Just the two of you. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, just “Hey let’s get out for a bit and stretch our legs.”
If at all possible try and back off the pills. I know it’s more complicated than that, depending on what you’re on. See if your doc can reduce them to a baby dose. Eventually you might even be able to ween yourself off. (Ignore this if you’re bipolar though - advice for fixing that is way beyond my pay grade, but it is possible).
Take a good look at the responses to this post. Care for yourself at least as much as a bunch of strangers do.
Get some rest. And if you truly need an older brother to talk to, pm me.