I am sorry to say this but almost everybody here is still brainwashed into thinking you must have work all the time. I am not saying YT or Tick Tock is a way to go (they should do something productive) but the thing you needed to do is say that everything is ok. If she left her job, ok then. She probably should have done that a long time ago if she wasn´t happy.

Maybe she needs a boy. Maybe she needs catch up in her personal life. I don´t know. But I personally had the best time in my life when I could just focus on my own projects (programmer here). Ask her about them. Or she could do something mentally easier part time to buy some food at least (eg. cashier, in warehouse). Forcing her to work (real job) because then she can afford mortgage for a maybe quarter of a house? Don´t you think it is just going to be even worse for her?

This is the transition time where things just sucks.