Im still confused as to why i need to bridge a divide with the people i never built or burnt a bridge with (the rest of the people in my country) my neighbours maybe (but we're fine), my family (they can apologise and i'll forgive them but havent stopped seeing them, helping them or loving them), my doctor (i chose a good doctor and others should only go with doctors that they can trust at an individual level), politicians and lawyers (never could nor should trust them), teachers (there should be a filter at home for information the teachers try to unload no matter what). A peaceful society is a society that sticks to small communities, trust can only be spread so far, venn diagrams (create chain mail) rather than pie graphs (making a hollow point). Everyone else should fail (if they chose incorrectly) and build themselves back up and join communities again as real people who have a genuine interest in being better (perhaps apologise genuinely to those they've wronged) not just virtue signalling, if they do that the others will understand and move forward together