This might be a great situation to learn something on a bigger picture.

When I was in my 20’s I was always compromising in order to make my girlfriends happy. It took until my mid 30s to realize I could simply put shut down whatever the issue was by chopping the issue off at the knees. I’m giving some slightly different advice than the slew of others on this post.

Don’t break it off. Tell her with absolute resolve “No. I’m not getting it. And if you don’t like it, then we can end this. If you don’t want to end this, then I don’t want to hear another word about it.”

She will probably get upset, but she will respect you as a man. There is a chance she might even leave, but if so, you’re no worse off. However, I’ve taken this approach many times now and the chick has always stayed. You just have to lay it down firm (not mean, just firm) so she knows you’re not messing around and she doesn’t have an inch to wiggle. Your life will be much easier if you take this approach anytime a chick is trying to compromise your boundaries. The first few times I implemented this, I was sure she’d leave. But she didn’t. And I was like woah. Now it’s just standard procedure.

If she brings it up again, or won’t let go of the matter, remind her once that she’s free to leave, but it’s a non-discussion. If she continues, then you need to end it yourself. It’s best to stay cold so she knows you mean business.

Of course it doesn’t hurt to try and red pill her about it too, but I see that as a separate matter. ;-)

This might be a great situation to learn something on a bigger picture.

When I was in my 20’s I was always compromising in order to make my girlfriends happy. It took until my mid 30s to realize I could simply put shut down whatever the issue was by chopping the issue off at the knees. I’m giving some slightly different advice than the slew of others on this post.

Don’t break it off. Tell her with absolute resolve “No. I’m not getting it. And if you don’t like it, then we can end this. If you don’t want to end this, then I don’t want to hear another word about it.”

She will probably get upset, but she will respect you as a man. There is a chance she might even leave, but if so, you’re no worse off. However, I’ve taken this approach many times now and the chick has always stayed. You just have to lay it down firm (not mean, just firm) so she knows you’re not messing around and she doesn’t have an inch to wiggle. Your life will be much easier if you take this approach anytime a chick is trying to compromise your boundaries. The first few times I implemented this, I was sure she’d leave. But she didn’t. And I was like woah. Now it’s just standard procedure.

Of course it doesn’t hurt to try and red pill her about it too, but I see that as a separate matter. ;-)