Just my two cents but I disagree with those who’ve said to trash the relationship because he doesn’t love you. This guy will be in yours and your baby’s lives for many, many, many years whether you have a relationship with him or not. When things were “normal”, I might have agreed with the sentiment that his actions show a lack of concern - but these are not normal times. I would base whatever decisions you make on what you know to be true about his character pre-COVID; people are under such intense pressure to conform right now and he may not be as convinced as you are of the risks. He may have genuinely thought he was doing the right thing for his impending family in making sure he got/stayed employed. That said, there are still consequences to decisions that we make, and that’s why strong couples make decisions that affect their family together. Together you now have some very difficult decisions to make. You’re well within your rights to not want to be around him while you’re pregnant - but once the baby comes, if you try to keep the child away from him because he got vaxxed it is extremely likely the Courts will not support your decision. I’ve been divorced, and two of my children have a child with a former partner. The Courts will not support one parent trying to keep the other parent away from the child except for in the most extreme cases. Given the “push” to vax and all the propaganda surrounding it, he’s going to look like the one who did the responsible thing and you (unvaxxed) might end up on the defensive for not having taken it. Tread carefully.

Just my two cents but I disagree with those who’ve said to trash the relationship because he doesn’t love you. This guy will be in yours and your baby’s lives for many, many, many years whether you have a relationship with him or not. When things were “normal”, I might have agreed with the sentiment that his actions show a lack of concern - but these are not normal times. I would base whatever decisions you make on what you know to be true about his character pre-COVID; people are under such intense pressure to conform right now and he may not be as convinced as you are of the risks. He may have genuinely thought he was doing the right thing for his impending family in making sure he got/stayed employed. That said, there are still consequences to decisions that we make, and that’s why strong couples make decisions that affect their family together. Together you have some difficult decisions to make. You’re well within your rights to not want to be around him while you’re pregnant - but once the baby comes, if you try to keep the child away from him because he got vaxxed it is extremely likely the Courts will not support your decision. I’ve been divorced, and two of my children have a child with a former partner. The Courts will not support one parent trying to keep the other parent away from the child except for in the most extreme cases. Given the “push” to vax and all the propaganda surrounding it, he’s going to look like the one who did the responsible thing and you (unvaxxed) might end up on the defensive for not having taken it. Tread carefully.

Just my two cents but I disagree with those who’ve said to trash the relationship because he doesn’t love you. This guy will be in yours and your baby’s lives for many, many, many years whether you have a relationship with him or not. When things were “normal”, I might have agreed with the sentiment that his actions show a lack of concern - but these are not normal times. I would base whatever decisions you make on what you know to be true about his character pre-COVID; people are under such intense pressure to conform right now and he may not be as convinced as you are of the risks. He may have genuinely thought he was doing the right thing for his impending family in making sure he got/stayed employed. That said, there are still consequences to decisions that get made and that’s why strong couples make decisions that affect their family together. Together you have some difficult decisions to make. You’re well within your rights to not want to be around him while you’re pregnant - but once the baby comes, if you try to keep the child away from him because he got vaxxed it is extremely likely the Courts will not support your decision. I’ve been divorced, and two of my children have a child with a former partner. The Courts will not support one parent trying to keep the other parent away from the child except for in the most extreme cases. Given the “push” to vax and all the propaganda surrounding it, he’s going to look like the one who did the responsible thing and you (unvaxxed) might end up on the defensive for not having taken it. Tread carefully.

Just my two cents but I disagree with those who’ve said to trash the relationship because he doesn’t love you. This guy will be in yours and your baby’s lives for many, many, many years whether you have a relationship with him or not. When things were “normal”, I might have agreed with the sentiment that his actions show a lack of concern - but these are not normal times. I would base whatever decisions you make on what you know to be true about his character pre-COVID; people are under such intense pressure to conform right now. He may not be as convinced as you are of the risks, and may have genuinely thought he was doing the right thing for his impending family in making sure he got/stayed employed. That said, there are still consequences to decisions that get made and that why strong couples make decisions that affect their family together. You have some difficult decisions to make. You’re well within your rights to not want to be around him, but once the baby comes, if you try to keep the child away from him because he got vaxxed, it’s extremely likely the Courts will not support your decision and allow you to keep his child from him. I’ve been divorced, and two of my children have a child with a former partner. The Courts will not support one parents trying to keep the other parent away from the child except for in the most extreme cases. Given the “push” to vax and all the propaganda surrounding it, he’s going to look like the one who did the responsible thing and you (unvaxxed) might end up on the defensive for not having taken it. Tread carefully.