These apps are 90% sluts who get probably 30 messages a day and have probably 10 ongoing conversations at a time. To succeed here you need to be in the top 5 or 10% of men and create a good profile. In addition, men are at a disadvantage in their late teens and early 20s since women peak then and men don't peak begin their peak until their mid to late 20's.
So what are you options?
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What are you doing to become a top 10% man. Work on this first. Do you lift weights? With proper form and effort? Have healthy diet? Get frequent hair cuts, cut nails? What are you doing to improve your job and money? Do you have interesting hobbies? Have you done enough interesting things to have interesting stories and ability to relate to more people? It's not hard to become top 10% man, but you need to put in effort.
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Take better photos. Take photos of you outdoors. One doing an outdoorsy hobby. One with a dog. One with friends. Write a short profile, but an engaging one that shows your personality. Don't write a response longer than hers. Often times, less is more.
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Get off the apps and meet ppl in real life. It's scarier, riskier, but you can get higher quality girls. Plus each conversation you strike up is a learning experience. Experience = confidence. What have you done to get more experiencing in simply engaging in conversation?
There is a lot more but working on yourself should be the priority. If you want a quality woman... become, you first need to become a quality man.
These apps are 90% sluts who get probably 30 messages a day and have probably 10 ongoing conversations at a time. To succeed here you need to be in the top 5 or 10% of men and create a good profile. In addition, men are at a disadvantage in their late teens and early 20s since women peak then and men don't peak begin their peak until their mid to late 20's.
So what are you options?
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What are you doing to become a top 10% man. Work on this first. Do you lift weights? With proper form and effort? Have healthy diet? Get frequent hair cuts, cut nails? What are you doing to improve your job and money? Do you have interesting hobbies? Have you done enough interesting things to have interesting stories ajd ability to relate to more people? It's not hard to become top 10% man, but you need to put in effort.
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Take better photos. Take photos of you outdoors. One doing an outdoorsy hobby. Write a short profile, but an engaging one that shows your personality. Don't write a response longer than hers. Often times, less is more.
-
Get off the apps and meet ppl in real life. It's scarier, riskier, but you can get higher quality girls. Plus each conversation you strike up is a learning experience. Experience = confidence. What have you done to get more experiencing in simply engaging in conversation?
There is a lot more but working on yourself should be the priority. If you want a quality woman... become, you first need to become a quality man.