Tell her you love her, you love your child and you want nothing more than health and happiness for you all. Admit that you don't know everything but you've read tons from both sides of the covid world and you believe there are life and death decisions before you as a family. As a family.
Just try to sound reasonable from her perspective. She is the one who will decide if she thinks you are reasonable, fair or not, so you need to show you acknowledge that there are health fears presented by covid. Only then can you say "we just can't know for sure, can we? So after all the ways to slice it, I've tried to find the place that is most likely to end in our health through all this. We may or may not get covid, and if we do get it, there are now treatments that allow almost everyone to get through it safely, and with long lasting immunity to it and all its variants. On the other hand, the vaccines are an affirmative act to expose ourselves to a new risk that is still becoming more and more concrete. Vaccine reactions are getting more well known, particularly for children, and since the vaccines have been around for less than two years, no one knows what the vaccines will do to our immune systems in the long run. This is exactly why all other vaccines have gone through years of testing before they were declared safe. Long term effects. Many vaccines in history looked good at first and then became unwound in long term testing due to deadly results. And while we don't know the long term effects of the vaccines, we now know that they aren't effective at stopping covid in the long term. So I'm taking the very unpopular position to protect us as a family. Even if you don't agree with a word I've said, please notice that I'm taking this position for us. Let's let it play out a little longer and see how the vaccines are doing with a little more time and study."
This is the position I took with my very liberal wife and she came around. It wasn't easy. We have not vaccinated our 15 year old boys and she backs that up after lots of discussion.
Arguing won't work, you need to approach every conversation with love and patience. Or your frustration and anger will lose her rather than the underlying points you are trying to make.
And yes, pray ceaselessly. Pray for God to send angels to get the demons of doubt and pride and anger and confusion off your wife and out of your house. There is a raging spiritual battle happening and I absolutely believe that you need to ask for warrior angels to remove the many demons who are hovering around your family. I have seen it work within moments when I pray for this in my own house. It is real.
May God bless you all.
Tell her you love her, you love your child and you want nothing more than health and happiness for you all. Admit that you don't know everything but you've read tons from both sides of the covid world and you believe there are life and death decisions before you as a family. As a family.
Just try to sound reasonable from her perspective. She is the one who will decide if she thinks you are reasonable, fair or not, so you need to show you acknowledge the health fears presented by covid. Only then can you say "we just can't know for sure, can we? So after all the ways to slice it, I've tried to find the place that is most likely to end in our health through all this. We may or may not get covid, and if we do get it, there are now treatments that allow almost everyone to get through it safely, and with long lasting immunity to it and all its variants. On the other hand, the vaccines are an affirmative act to expose ourselves to a new risk that is still becoming more and more concrete. Vaccine reactions are getting more well known, particularly for children, and since the vaccines have been around for less than two years, no one knows what the vaccines will do to our immune systems in the long run. This is exactly why all other vaccines have gone through years of testing before they were declared safe. Long term effects. Many vaccines in history looked good at first and then became unwound in long term testing due to deadly results. And while we don't know the long term effects of the vaccines, we now know that they aren't effective at stopping covid in the long term. So I'm taking the very unpopular position to protect us as a family. Even if you don't agree with a word I've said, please notice that I'm taking this position for us. Let's let it play out a little longer and see how the vaccines are doing with a little more time and study."
This is the position I took with my very liberal wife and she came around. It wasn't easy. We have not vaccinated our 15 year old boys and she backs that up after lots of discussion.
Arguing won't work, you need to approach every conversation with love and patience. Or your frustration and anger will lose her rather than the underlying points you are trying to make.
And yes, pray ceaselessly. Pray for God to send angels to get the demons of doubt and pride and anger and confusion off your wife and out of your house. There is a raging spiritual battle happening and I absolutely believe that you need to ask for warrior angels to remove the many demons who are hovering around your family. I have seen it work within moments when I pray for this in my own house. It is real.
May God bless you all.
Tell her you love her, you love your child and you want nothing more than health and happiness for you all. Admit that you don't know everything but you've read tons from both sides of the covid world and you believe there are life and death decisions before you as a family. As a family.
Just try to sound reasonable from her perspective. She is the one who will decide if she thinks you are reasonable, fair or not, so you need to show you acknowledge the health fears presented by covid. Only then can you say "we just can't know for sure, can we? So after all the ways to slice it, I've tried to find the place that is most likely to end in our health through all this. We may or may not get covid, and if we do there are now treatments that allow almost everyone to get through it safely, and with long lasting immunity to it and all its variants. On the other hand, the vaccines are an affirmative act to expose ourselves to a new risk that is still becoming more and more concrete. Vaccine reactions are getting more well known, particularly for children, and since the vaccines have been around for less than two years, no one knows what they do to us long term. This is why all other vaccines have gone through years of testing before declared safe. And while we don't know the long term effects of the vaccines, we now know that they aren't effective long term. So I'm taking the very unpopular position to protect us as a family. Even if you don't agree with a word ive said, please notice that I'm taking this position for us. Let's let it play out a little longer and see how the vaccines are doing with a little more time and study."
This is the position I took with my very liberal wife and she I say coming around. We have not vaccinated our 15 year old boys and she backs that up after lots of discussion.
Arguing won't work, you need to approach every conversation with love and patience. Or your frustration and anger will lose her rather than the underlying points you are trying to make.
And yes, pray ceaselessly. Pray for God to send angels to get the demons of doubt and pride and anger and confusion off your wife and out of your house. There is a raging spiritual battle happening and I absolutely believe that you need to ask for warrior angels to remove the many demons who are hovering around your family. I have seen it work within moments when I pray for this in my own house. It is real.
May God bless you all.