Even marriages where the husband was quote “a jerk or quote cheated or had an affair ..I sit there listening thinking this guy should have left you years ago , you’re mean, you’re a bitch , you give him no attention or affection, you’re ungrateful, on and on . I oftentimes or most of the time state these facts, I have a private practice so I’m able to be honest ! Yes there are a few guys (5 to maybe 10 percent ) who have major issues and I can see they are the problem , but you’d be surprised ..it’s usually the woman , almost always the woman . Guys wait years during the raising of the children for a thread of attention once the kids are grown they are still ignored , than it’s menopause. I’m not bashing woman I’m one myself , but after speaking to large crowds of woman tens of thousands over my career and meeting one on one for many years I can honestly say “ men get the short end of the stick if any at all , yes a lot of men are walking around ball less, but most gave them to a demanding woman years ago. I can’t stand seeing guys in masks but as I said masculinity is under attack and has been for years !

Even marriages where the husband was quote “a jerk or quote cheated or had an affair ..I sit there listening thinking this guy should have left you years ago , your mean, your a bitch , you give him no attention or affection, your ungrateful, on and on . I oftentimes or most of the time state these facts, I have a private practice so I’m able to be honest ! Yes there are a few guys (5 to maybe 10 percent ) who have major issues and I can see they are the problem , but you’d be surprised ..it’s usually the woman , almost always the woman . Guys wait years during the raising of the children for a thread of attention once the kids are grown they are still ignored , than it’s menopause. I’m not bashing woman I’m one myself , but after speaking to large crowds of woman tens of thousands over my career and meeting one on one for many years I can honestly say “ men get the short end of the stick if any at all , yes a lot of men are walking around ball less, but most gave them to a demanding woman years ago. I can’t stand seeing guys in masks but as I said masculinity is under attack and has been for years !