It's not all about you. He's a young man. He's probably worried about a woman, money, bills, his job, a house, vehicle, gas, his entire future. He may not care anything about Q. You have decades of experience he doesn't have. Support and comfort him. Stop being disappointed he's not supporting and comforting you. Stop letting Q shit keep him from being close to you.

(This is just my opinion. I'm a nobody. Feel free to ignore me. I don't have kids. We lost my Dad suddently. We moved back and purchased the house across the street from my Mom. My husband and I make dinner with my Mom nearly every night. She's awesome. But she often forgets we have our own shit we are dealing with. When she was our age she visited her parents once a year on summer vacation. She forgets this. She forgets what it was like at our age. She'd make everything about her if we let her.)

It's not all about you. He's a young man. He's probably worried about a woman, money, bills, his job, a house, vehicle, gas, his entire future. He may not care anything about Q. You have decades of experience he doesn't have. Support and comfort him. Stop being disappointed he's not supporting and comforting you. Stop letting Q shit keep him from being close to you.

(This is just my opinion. I'm a nobody. I don't have kids. We lost my Dad suddently. We moved back and purchased the house across the street from my Mom. My husband and I make dinner with my Mom nearly every night. She's awesome. But she often forgets we have our own shit we are dealing with. When she was our age she visited her parents once a year on summer vacation. She forgets this. She forgets what it was like at our age. She'd make everything about her if we let her.)