Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go legal separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
I am sub contractor / self employed and my income is not secured. Straight up Canadian law says the one who makes more money has to pay the other a very large portion of the difference in salaries per year.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a $10,000 bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with her. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
Also... very important. For her to make that money, she has to work around 14hrs a day. Where is the time for Salty? She's been doing this for 3 years now ( this job ) and he gets MAYBE a hour or two with her per day now. Sure, she leaves between 2 and 3 am, but still doesn't get home until 5-6pm most nights.
What happens if she has a breakdown and doesn't even get back to town until 8 PM? It's happened. She still has to drop the truck and drive home. No matter where she goes she will not be able to park her work truck where she lives and go right to work like she does now. That means up earlier, and home later.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
If we legally separate, the gov't and her creditors will immediately come after her. She actually believes your debts just disappear after 7 years if you don't pay them.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, it's nobody's business so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.
Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go legal separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
I am sub contractor / self employed and my income is not secured. Straight up Canadian law says the one who makes more money has to pay the other a very large portion of the difference in salaries per year.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a $10,000 bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with her. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
If we legally separate, the gov't and her creditors will immediately come after her. She actually believes your debts just disappear after 7 years if you don't pay them.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, it's nobody's business so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.
Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
I am sub contractor / self employed and my income is not secured. Straight up Canadian law says the one who makes more money has to pay the other a very large portion of the difference in salaries per year.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a $10,000 bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with her. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
If we legally separate, the gov't and her creditors will immediately come after her. She actually believes your debts just disappear after 7 years if you don't pay them.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, it's nobody's business so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.
Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
I am sub contractor / self employed and my income is not secured. Straight up Canadian law says the one who makes more money has to pay the other a very large portion of the difference in salaries per year.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a $10,000 bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with her. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out of me. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.
Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
I am sub contractor / self employed and my income is not secured. Straight up Canadian law says the one who makes more money has to pay the other a very large portion of the difference in salaries per year.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a $10,000 bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with here. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out of me. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.
Thank you. My pups are my strength and my focus. I've got a house with lots of projects and a nice yard to work on for focusing as well ; keeping me on the path.
I can't turn off my care. She makes decent money ( brings home avg. $4500/ month ). The lowest rents around here for non bachelor / one room shared is over $1000 / month - no utilities. Her truck payment is $400 / month. Gas, food, utilities, phone bill, alimony to me. I told her I'd be nice and only ask for $500/ month because she's going to need money to survive. If we go separation route, she'll EASILY have to pay me $800-$1000 / month.
How much does she have left then? Not including student loans she has + a bankruptcy loan + a mastercard with over $10,000 with the interest.
I think anyone in my situation would care, I don't know how not to. I know exactly how this is going to play out for her.... and I just have to sit back and watch it happen.
She thinks she's taking the cockatoo with here. Now, Idk what you know about parrots but cockatoos are not solo birds, they are 100000% social and NEED social interaction / attention / out of cage. They are not cage birds if you're home. The have 2 calls though ; a whistle and a scream. These are mate calls, and it starts the second you leave sight. Average decibel is 130-140 for these calls. You absolutely can not have this type of bird in any type of shared living / apartment / basement unit because you'll either be told you or the bird in the first 2 weeks. Happens ALL the time.
There's no full houses to rent here ; all either upstairs or down , lowest I've seen for upstairs, 2 bedrooms is $1300 + family downstairs / shared laundry. I don't know where she thinks she's taking Salty with her.
Sorry for the novels..... Again... looks like this is my only source of release. I truly thank you folks for allowing me to get this out of me. We're not telling anybody anything until she actually moves out, so.... This is all I have, thank you all, immensely.