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Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises. Can't always break down and let the kid get their way. You are their guide and their way.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother can take on a role of slight disinterest in the boy, while the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

And it also comes down to plainly teaching kids the difference between a boy and a girl, which we've done since the beginning of time. The reason they might play with mom's stuff is because they don't yet know the difference between boy and girl. They think it's "adult" stuff, they don't know gender until taught about it. They don't know "girl stuff" from "boy stuff". Kids see thing more as "us kids vs them adults".

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises. Can't always break down and let the kid get their way. You are their guide and their way.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother can take on a role of slight disinterest in the boy, while the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

And it also comes down to plainly teaching kids the difference between a boy and a girl, which we've done since the beginning of time. The reason they might play with mom's stuff is because they don't yet know the difference between boy and girl. They think it's "adult" stuff, they don't know gender until taught about it. They don't know "girl stuff" from "boy stuff". Kids see thing more as "us vs adults".

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises. Can't always break down and let the kid get their way. You are their guide and their way.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother can take on a role of slight disinterest in the boy, while the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

And it also comes down to plainly teaching kids the difference between a boy and a girl, which we've done since the beginning of time. The reason they might play with mom's stuff is because they don't yet know the difference between boy and girl. They think it's "adult" stuff, they don't know gender until taught about it. They don't know "girl stuff" from "boy stuff".

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother can take on a role of slight disinterest in the boy, while the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

And it also comes down to plainly teaching kids the difference between a boy and a girl, which we've done since the beginning of time. The reason they might play with mom's stuff is because they don't yet know the difference between boy and girl. They think it's "adult" stuff, they don't know gender until taught about it. They don't know "girl stuff" from "boy stuff".

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother can take on a role of slight disinterest in the boy, while the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents. Accessing your parents' stuff should usually be grounds for getting in trouble anyways. Don't punish the kid to where they think you're making heels off limits like candy bars, so that they secretly want more.

I can't actually say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
2 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

The "what if" stuff is showing weakness. As a father you exude confidence, you are SURE the boy will love those boots.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents.

I can't say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
1 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents.

I can't say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be comfortable with their body, their mind, and who they are.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
1 score
Reason: None provided.

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents.

I can't say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood. Boy scouts and Girl scouts exist for a reason, to show kids how to be.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
1 score
Reason: Original

No problem, I hope to give some useful answer if I can.

It is all about what you expose a kid to.

You are a parent, and it is your job to raise your child, not to allow the child to raise itself. If the child likes the heels, it doesn't matter, they don't get the heels. In fact, they will never see heels again. You were the one who exposed him to that and allowed them access to it, so you should eliminate that as a first step, because you caused that issue. The parent knows what's best for the child (usually, in a sane society) until they are mature. So as not to stress the boy out, you'd logically deduce why he doesn't want the boots, to then explain how he's not thinking correctly and boots are pretty dope actually, and/or give him a shoe that compromises.

Curiosity is natural. Kids are very curious. They go into their parents' room when nobody is home and they explore all the items they find. They test them all out. This doesn't mean a kid is gay or gender curious. It just means they're curious, to know what happens, when they utilize the items of their parents.

I can't say how to parent because I've never done it. But I was kid once. What seems to work is if you catch your boy playing with stuff that isn't appropriate for their gender, you have to take it away and explain that its for girls. You have to tell them that he's a boy, and that stuff is for girls. Maybe even make a fun little jab at "girls" a bit. Girls wear dresses and boys wear pants. Remember? You've always worn pants growing up, yes you remember now don't you? This works very well and the kid can easily understand it without enduring any stress.

The feminine things can be kept out of reach when a boy is in the household. Simple and logical stuff like that.

Father spending time with the boy is key though. If the kid won't wean off the mother, the mother and father should work together to get that kid out there in the wilderness, learn to survive, harden up that manhood.

Hope it helps!

2 years ago
1 score