I think I have built my sense of self worth around some of the wrong things. Or value certain things too much. You’re right, a situation like this would certainly change that. I just fucking hate it. I used to be a broke waitress living with my parents… had female role models who married men just to have a roof over their head and spending money, didn’t marry them for love. Told myself I would never do that- worked my ass off for the past ten years and am doing so well. Didn’t follow in the footsteps of my mom. I’m so proud of myself for that bc for so many years I didn’t think I could do it on my own- what do you do when you lose the thing you like the most about yourself? Change priorities I guess. I’ll be fine. I always am. I’m just so mad right now

I think I have built my sense of self worth around some of the wrong things. Or value certain things too much. You’re right, a situation like this would certainly change that. I just fucking hate it. I used to be a broke waitress living with my parents… had female role models who married men just to have a roof over their head and spending money, didn’t marry them for love. Told myself I would never do that- worked my ass off for the past ten years and am doing so well. Didn’t follow in the footsteps of my mom. I’m so proud of myself for that - what do you do when you lose the thing you like the most about yourself? Change priorities I guess. I’ll be fine. I always am. I’m just so mad right now