You forget that the number one reason for women getting an abortion is pressure from her male partner who doesn't want kids. It's not just women who are programmed to not want kids contrary to popular belief. Similarly, I even see this on this site, with people on TheDonald commenting that they can't have more than 1-2 kids because they can't afford it... it's a mix of mass programing and making a lot of today's young people to financially unstable (escpecially since children are not expensive unless you make them be).
You forget that the number one reason for women getting an abortion is pressure from her male partner who doesn't want kids... it's not just women who are programmed.