I mean, not to play devil's advocate

But I'd say you two hitting it off chemistry wise and in terms of sex is pretty damn important. Especially because you both already have kids, the relationship and its actual compatibility may come into play much more than a relationship where intimacy sinks to the background to pregnancy, birth, raising infants, etc

So if you can both actually hit it off as best friends and also crazy about each other intimately, the likelihood she'll be an amazing and loyal parent to your child is a lot higher

Remember, she was and is a girl before she was a parent..nurturing and cherishing her identity is tippy top. A big part of your kid seeing her as a parent and someone they can trust is them seeing how great you two get along and how you two are as close as you and your wife were

I mean, not to play devil's advocate

But I'd say you two hitting it off chemistry wise and in terms of sex is pretty damn important. Especially because you both already have kids, the relationship and its actual compatibility may come into play much more than a relationship where intimacy sinks to the background to pregnancy, birth, raising infants, etc

So if you can both actually hit it off as bsy friends and also crazy about each other intimately, the likelihood she'll be an amazing and loyal parent to your child is a lot higher

Remember, she was and is a girl before she was a parent..nurturing and cherishing her identity is tippy top. A big part of your kid seeing her as a parent and someone they can trust is them seeing how great you two get along and how you two are as close as you and your wife were