Ok, you asked... Set deadlines. Employed within 2 months. After 1 month employed he starts contributing a set amount in cash to you for % of util and house cost and food. Warn him that if he fails to do either of these things, he will be required to find a different place to live within 60 days of failing do what you require. Put it in writing, both sign it and date it and get it notarized. Free service where you bank. Make sure the paperwork states specific % of his net earnings you require receiving monthly. Give him a photocopy of the papers. Tell him you feel disrespected and taken for granted and that you are not willing to continue the way it is. Tell him you accept responsibility for coddling and spoiling him and now you have to yank off the bandaid. Remember, you teach people how to treat you, and you need to correct what you have allowed. I have grown kids. I know your concerns. I understand the conflicting feelings. Help you son be an adult man instead of a weak dependent man-child. Personal accountability must be learned. Good luck. Stay strong in spite of anger or sulking or anxiety. He doesn't have to earn a lot of money. This exercise is about fairness and responsibility. He can do menial labor and still dream of better things. If he is vaxxed, learn the ways to correct the damage. Get some "Mood +" supplement from Amazon. It'll help a lot. Read ALL the reviews!

Ok, you asked... Set deadlines. Employed within 2 months. After 1 month employed he starts contributing a set amount in cash to you for % of util and house cost and food. Warn him that if he fails to do either of these things, he will be required to find a different place to live within 60 days of failing do what you require. Put it in writing, both sign it and date it and get it notarized. Free service where you bank. Make sure the paperwork states specific % of his net earnings you require receiving monthly. Give him a photocopy of the papers. Tell him you feel disrespected and taken for granted and that you are not willing to continue the way it is. Tell him you accept responsibility for coddling and spoiling him and now you have to yank off the bandaid. Remember, you teach people how to treat you, and you need to correct what you have allowed. I have grown kids. I know your concerns. I understand the conflicting feelings. Help you son be an adult man instead of a weak dependent man-child. Personal accountability must be learned. Good luck. Stay strong in spite of anger or sulking or anxiety. He doesn't have to earn a lot of money. This exercise is about fairness and responsibility. He can do menial labor and still dream of better things. If he is vaxxed, learn the ways to correct the damage. Get some "Mood +" supplement from Amazon. It'll help a lot. Read ALL the reviews!

Ok, you asked... Set deadlines. Employed within 2 months. After 1 month employed he starts contributing a set amount in cash to you for % of util and house cost and food. Warn him that if he fails to do either of these things, he will be required to find a different place to live within 60 days of failing do what you require. Put it in writing, both sign it and date it and get it notarized. Free service where you bank. Make sure the paperwork states specific % of his net earnings you require receiving monthly. Give him a photocopy of the papers. Tell him you feel disrespected and taken for granted and that you are not willing to continue the way it is. Tell him you accept responsibility for coddling and spoiling him and now you have to yank off the bandaid. Remember, you teach people how to treat you, and you need to correct what you have allowed. I have grown kids. I know your concerns. I understand the conflicting feelings. Help you son be an adult man instead of a weak dependent man-child. Personal accountability must be learned. Good luck. Stay strong in spite of anger or sulking or anxiety. He doesn't have to earn a lot of money. This exercise is about fairness and responsibility. He can do menial labor and still dream of better things.