If you still love her, finding out she is cheating emotionally or physically could help you get over her.

And the most important advice I will give you is this, and please make sure you do this:

Write down everything you disliked about her, all of it, focus on those things you disliked about her, read them daily when you are feeling down.

If you still love her, finding out she is cheating emotionally or physically could help you get over her.

And the most important advice I will give you is this, and please make sure you do this:

Write down everything you disliked about her, all of it, focus on those things you disliked about her, read them daily when you are feeling down. That is how I got over my first love cheating on me after 4 years. (that along with dating new women made me completely forget about her). I was feeling good after about 5 months after I found out she cheated, she was still trying to get me back, and she noticed I was happy and she absolutely knew I was dating new women.