Best bit of advice I received was "If you don't change a thing everything remains the same". Ask yourself is this the way you want to carry on? Can you endure it for the sake of your child? Is just surviving in this situation they way you want to live?
I don't know the laws of divorce, or child support payments and don't know how much money you have coming in and other parts of your financial situation. Whether you would get custody of your daughter.
If you feeling at your wits end in your current situation it's best for you to change the situation.
Speak to a lawyer, ask about who will retain the house, have custody, how debts will be split, can you support yourself on your wage(s), are there other jobs in a lower cost of living place. I'm afraid its just moving on with your life now, obviously be there for your daughter.
The anticipation of things are scarier and worse than the execution of thing feared. Have a look on the internet this happens to men a lot but once they split and are out on their own two feet again they finally find some solace. Most of them end up doing much better than their ex. These can be very encouraging to listen to and it will get better if you make steps to make it better, living in limbo is not a good feeling.
God bless you brother, seeing your wife each day reminded of the betrayal is worse than starting anew. You cant force her to love you and she's made her mind. Life is shit but we need to adapt to the changes forced upon us.
If it was me I would separate from the emotional attachment to my wife and go on my own and find happiness elsewhere. It's looks bleak now as your carrying the emotional baggage, accept the change and don't fight to keep it. Start a new chapter in your life.
Best bit of advice I received was "If you don't change a thing everything remains the same". Ask yourself is this the way you want to carry on? Can you endure it for the sake of your child? Is just surviving in this situation they way you want to live?
I don't know the laws of divorce, or child support payments and don't know how much money you have coming in and other parts of your financial situation. Whether you would get custody of your daughter.
If you feeling at your wits end in your current situation it's best for you to change the situation.
Speak to a lawyer, ask about who will retain the house, have custody, how debts will be split, can you support yourself on your wage(s), are there other jobs in a lower cost of living place. I'm afraid its just moving on with your life now, obviously be there for your daughter.
The anticipation of things are scarier and worse than the execution of thing feared. Have a look on the internet this happens to men a lot but once they split and are out on their own two feet again they finally find some solace. Most of them end up doing much better than their ex.
God bless you brother, seeing your wife each day reminded of the betrayal is worse than starting anew. You cant force her to love you and she's made her mind. Life is shit but we need to adapt to the changes forced upon us.
If it was me I would separate from the emotional attachment to my wife and go on my own and find happiness elsewhere. It's looks bleak now as your carrying the emotional baggage, accept the change and don't fight to keep it. Start a new chapter in your life.