Read The Big Stick by Tony Edelman. It to talks about how a social dynamic has created men who suffer from nice guy syndrome. Basically we are raised to please women while women need to be lead not be the ones ruling the households. So what happens is the woman walk all over the man and then become exhausted from leading in the mans role.

Go out and do things for yourself. I know your finances are a issue but find guy friends who can be mentors and choose some of those to be safe people who you can trust to share your marriage situation with.

Look into ways to be more masculine. Maybe an online men's group although in person would be best. Assertiveness can be learned. You need to find ways to be your true self to get what you want while not being a total dick. This won't just help In marriage but with all relationships in life.

Once you do this she will begin to respect you. Maybe not to ever come back to connecting romantically but at least she will listen to what your want to do with the kid and the living situation.

Read The Big Stick by Tony Edelman. It to talks about how a social dynamic has created men who suffer from nice guy syndrome. Basically we are raised to please women while women need to be lead not be the ones ruling the households. So what happens is the woman walk all over the man and then become exhausted from leading in the mans role.

Go out and do things for yourself. Go buy some new clothes, get a new haircut, and join a gym. Find guy friends who can be mentors and choose some of those to be safe people who you can trust to share your marriage situation with.

Look into ways to be more masculine. Find a coach if you think that will help. Maybe an online men's group although in person would be best. Assertiveness can be learned. You need to find ways to be your true self to get what you want while not being a total dick. This won't just help In marriage but with all relationships in life.

Once you do this she will begin to respect you. Maybe not to ever come back to connecting romantically but at least she will listen to what your want to do with the kid and the living situation.